Dienstag, 9. November 2010

Fear and the fear of change

 I was today asked the question "Why do relationship end?"
 I replied, because people start to dislike each other, get bored or just start to want something different.
But i dont actually think these are the main reasons. I think the main reason is fear.
If you are afraid to change something in your life or your relationship, you are going to get stuck and when you reach that point, well lets say it's not going upwards from there.

Let's just say you got a girlfriend and you've been together for over 2 years. Eventually at some point she wants something new. If you don't give her something new, well guess what, she's going to leave you for something new! But if you're not afraid to change yourself and your life you can give her something new. You can give her what she wants and if you do that, well guess what, everything's fine!

Just wanted to talk about this and i might talk about it again, 'cause i think it's a pretty interesting topic which you can have many opinions about. And i'd like to hear your's in the comments :)

Stay tuned for new post tomorrow!

Kommentare:

  1. Interesting and makes me think hard. Great post.

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  2. i agree, but what is your opinion?

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  3. I think people always want what they don't have, and that's the appeal of change

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  4. life is change, and we either learn to adapt or die. Good post dude, and wicked blog, I will be followin

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  5. Perfect relationships end because life gets in the way. My girlfriend and I are going to have been going out for ard 2 years and it's going to end because she's going on exchange for a year and so will I. :(

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  6. Good post! Looking forward to reading you next one

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  7. Some people are simply unwilling to change for their partner, and some just consider that unacceptable.

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  8. true, some are just scared of changing partners thats why they stick around too.

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  9. I'm pretty sure every relationship has its own reasons for downfall, it aint all about fear

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